Thank you for this information. I wish I’d had your words an insight while sitting amongst a social group as they devoured the details of a mass shooting of children, whom I didn’t know, in a place where I’ll never go, for a reason I can never change, comprehend, or prevent. When asked my thoughts on the matter, as one who usually doesn’t hesitate to share opinions, I simply remarked that this event, though tragic, has nothing to do with me. They were incensed; they left no room for me to try to explain that, for me, it was just too much.