On Finding The Perfect Dress
My Response to a Group of Survivors of Domestic Violence.
As part of a program to help my adopted 4-year-old daughter some years ago, I was required to join the moms’ group. I spent sixteen weeks with eleven mothers who, with their children, were struggling to escape the violence they’d suffered at the hands of their partners.
I learned so much, not the least of which was a profound respect for the strength and determination of these women. It was an amazing experience.
As the interloper in the group, they asked me about my marriage. I enjoyed a solid, loving, and respectful relationship with my husband, and had shared many insights with them over our months together.
What follows is a piece I wrote for them that was most positively received. They all asked for copies to take home with them.
On Finding The Perfect Dress
Last week you asked how you would know that you’ve found the perfect dress, and when that was going to happen. I have given this a great deal of thought would like to share my experience with you.
The first dress I ever tried on was at my eighteenth birthday party. It was the worst dress you could imagine. I thought I liked the dress, but in the end, the zipper ripped…
